You are here because you want to improve your intimate life, and you're in the right place.

You’re here either because you’re not enjoying sex, think you have issues, or often experience sexual encounters with anxiety and frustration. … or maybe …  You’re already enjoying a satisfying sex life but want to elevate it to the next level, to achieve true ecstasy and learn how to give deep, multiple orgasms?

My name is Eva Sýkora, and I know how to help you.

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You are here because you want to improve your intimate life, and you're in the right place.

You’re here either because you’re not enjoying sex, think you have issues, or often experience sexual encounters with anxiety and frustration. … or maybe …  You’re already enjoying a satisfying sex life but want to elevate it to the next level, to achieve true ecstasy and learn how to give deep, multiple orgasms?

My name is Eva Sýkora, and I know how to help you.

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4 ELEMENTS
UNLEASHING PERSONAL AND SEXUAL POWER

we work on an emotional level

We harmonize emotions to make you feel serene and at ease, both during the day and during intercourse.

we work on a
Phisical Level

Release all the tensions stored in your body to liberate sexual energy and make it come to the surface.

we work on a
Mental Level

I free you from all the limiting convictions imposed by religion, society, friends, family, and prior experiences.

we work on an
ENERGy level

You will learn special Tantric exercises you can do alone or as a couple to increase your pleasure vibrations.

Riproduci video

The only way to healthily experience your intimacy and sexuality is to bring harmony to all four elements: emotions, body, mind, and energy.

Do you want to have a good sex life?

Grow until you explode with pleasure?

Helping you is not only my work, it’s my mission.

Premature eiaculation, difficulties achieving erections or getting excited, problems in reaching orgasm, anxiety and lack of desire…

I have worked with men who before our journey would never have thought they’d be able to experience sex in a natural, healthy, and serene way.

After more than 20,000 hours of consulting, I can affirm that the problems are almost NEVER physical and in most cases everything can be solved with a course of growth and awareness.

Thanks to the 4 ELEMENTS Unleashing personal and sexual method, we have always been able to find a solution.

Contact me right away.

Most women suffer from physical ailments, emotional problems or psychological blocks that limit their ability to reach orgasm.

After having worked with many women, I can state with certainty that achieving pleasure during intimacy is not at all simple nor common, even within stable relationships.

Thanks to the 4 ELEMENTS Unleashing personal and sexual method, we have always found a solution.

Don’t give up!

Most couples suffer crises due to unspoken sexual problems or a decline in desire due to repetitive and frustrating daily habits.

Seeking a solution to the problem of sexuality together will be a strong point of unity and the beginning of a new path toward balance as a couple.

Together we will define what block prevents you from experiencing sexuality with full satisfaction and achieving sacredness in your intimate union.

My mission is to make sure that you can experience intimacy fully and harmoniously.

Improve your sex life by achieving results in a shorter time.

CHOOSE THE VIP JOURNEY.

Together we will define the period of time based on your objective , I will dedicate all my time and
experience to redefine fully the way you live your sexuality.

With VIP journey I can move and come in your city, pause all my diary to speed up
your journey , move with you in a quite place where you could live your transformation with serenity.

Increase the vibrations in every cell of your body until you explode in a multiple energy orgasm that lasts for hours.
Imagine that the sexual energy flows in your body flow like in a river full of rocks. The energy flows the same, but it is slowed down.

Through the work we will do together, we will remove each obstacle so you can enjoy your full sexual power.

IT IS INCREDIBLE

Unlike traditional orgasms, energy orgasms do not remove energy from your body but add it, making you more active and stronger.

Reach your highest potential, becoming the best lover ever.

BECOME A MAGIC LOVER.

Just like an orchestra, our body is made up of many pleasure receptors which must be activated in the right way and in the correct sequence.

Learn how to make your body vibrate in total resonance with his and achieve an intense, deep, and entrancing pleasure.

I will teach and accompany you on a comprehensive journey that trains body, mind and emotions to expand your energy and elevate you to a superior state of sexual awareness.

Learn how to make him go crazy with pleasure
while you reach an ecstasy you’ve never felt before.

BECOME A SEX GODDESS

Just like an orchestra, our body is made up of many pleasure receptors which must be activated in the right way and in the correct sequence.

Learn how to make your body vibrate in total resonance with his and achieve an intense, deep, and entrancing pleasure.

I will teach and accompany you on a comprehensive journey that trains body, mind and emotions to expand your energy and elevate you to a superior state of sexual awareness.

Listen to the testimonies of others
who, like you, felt there was more...

...and never gave up!

The experience of Philipp

The experience of Eros

Hello. My name is Eros, and I want to tell you about my journey with Eva and, above all, why I undertook it.

I’ve had many relationship problems stemming from anxiety, and nervousness. Oftentimes I couldn’t express myself in general, but that was especially the case with women. I got stuck. I had a kind of inner block, anxiety – I was never happy. Even with work – I went, but I went reluctantly, always with a bit of anger inside. I didn’t really want to live, and the life I was living wasn’t a good one. On the one hand, I was determined and convinced to do it; but on the other hand, my own mind was stopping me, filling me with so many doubts. I decided to gain power over my mind, to try and invest in myself.

After the first month on this journey, I already felt the benefits. I no longer felt nervous about myself, there were no more disagreements with colleagues, and I’d arrive home from work feeling more serene.

Plus, I become more conscious of doing the things I was missing. I found more energy, more serenity. I rediscovered myself – more beautiful, and happier than before. I was so happy that after a couple of months my colleagues would look at me and make comments like “what a beautiful face, what a beautiful smile. What happened? Did you have a good weekend? And I was smiling inside, saying “Look, this path I’m on is having an effect.”

Then I discovered an energy for sexual pleasure, something I’d lost a little. I had it in a distorted way, and I found myself smiling more. It had been a long time since I’d found this smile.

I have sexual energy throughout my body that expands, a life energy that I don’t think I’ve ever had before.

I highly recommend everyone to at least try it. After the trial day, you come to understand what you want in life. I understood a lot, and I’m happy and proud of myself for the path I am taking.

The experience of Michele

Hello, I’m Michele, I’m one of Eva’s students and I’m very happy with the path I’m taking.

It started like this: at the beginning, I had a strong need to, first of all, understand my body more, this is of fundamental importance. Something that goes beyond the normal five senses. But what I wanted most was to give a different flavor to what sexuality is. Before Eva, I had a very beautiful, very satisfying sex life, but one that had the physical and partly mental limits of what can be “normal” sexual relations.

“Normal” in quotation marks, because there’s no such thing as normal, as every relationship is unique. But something was always missing. An orgasm was always an end in itself, in the sense that it gave that temporary pleasure, and then it died away. It’s certainly very nice to share with the person you love, with the person you desire, but I felt that there could be something more.

Despite the fact that I was very skeptical at first, with Eva I started experiencing truly amazing things. I understand that there are two types of sexual energy. The first is the one we all know. The second, which is the most beautiful, is an energy that regenerates you. It’s not an energy that you throw out and vent, it’s an energy that you feel. This is the thing that amazed me: it’s an energy that you perceive even without touching yourself anymore, without placing your hand on your chest, for example, or without massages. There are those too, but you simply share this beautiful energy that isn’t just erotic, it’s something more. It moves the soul. I know it’s a very abstract concept, but you feel it at a certain point. This is the beautiful thing about Eva. We had several lessons, each one different from the other. This is also a wonderful thing because you never know what to expect.

So, I’m very happy with the results I got out of it, and I’m amazed every time because it means…. I was lucky enough to have started this path at 31 years old. Now I’m 32, I’m really lucky because the idea of going on with my life without knowing myself as I’m beginning to know myself now would have been a real shame, a great sorrow. So, I’m happy with the path I’m taking. I can’t wait to continue on this journey, I can’t wait to know more about the essence of things.

I know that these words seem abstract, that they don’t have a great meaning other than the emotional impact for those who listen to me, but I really think that the results I’m seeing – among other things, an increase in sexual performance, but also greater serenity. Recognizing that until now my body had a certain type of reaction with things, but was partly drugged by events, by my normal, everyday situations. Now it’s unblocking instead, I feel a different contact with things. It’s complicated to explain it in words. Whoever hears me may think I’m crazy, but I guarantee that it’s a unique experience. I never expected something like this.

For example, I would never have expected that with just passing my hand close to the body I can feel a reaction from my muscles, my nervous system, passing an energy, shivers of pleasure, but it’s a pleasure that goes beyond that which is the ordinary conception of sexuality. Something fascinating, really beautiful, and you come to understand just how much there is still to learn and to understand.

The experience of Alberto

Hi, I’m Alberto. I contacted Eva because I was having problems in my intimate life. It has been about 2 years and I started to worry about my problem and I looked for solutions.

I wasn’t sure if it would work, but I decided to try a journey with Eva. And now I’m happy with my choice, because only after 3 months of the journey I solved my problem.

What I really appreciate about Eva is that from the first moment I felt immediately comfortable and I really appreciate it a lot.

The experience of Daniele

My name is Daniele, I met Eva about a year ago and I started my journey with her. I discovered something that I’d never felt before – something unusual, strange. It was something that I felt all over my chest, neck, face, practically all over my body – an energy, something pleasant and strange that I’d never felt before.

We saw each other several times, and each time was something amazing, just one surprise after another. I saw a great result, doing a series of exercises about the freedom to choose. And this was the keystone, which is a really great outcome for me: the discovery of one’s freedom, of one’s decision, of one’s choice. And also, to listen to the energies, which are really strong and powerful. And in addition to freedom, there was also the discovery of personal pleasure, of satisfaction which, compared to the past, has increased and has greatly influenced my life, my relationships, and my friendships. Because in any case, all this affects one’s life, one’s joy, one’s happiness, one’s well-being. It yields a lot of results if you commit yourself if you dedicate yourself to it. You can’t describe it until you try, so my suggestion is to try it, and then choose and decide.

The distorted representation promoted by media and pornography influences that which we all feel we need to demonstrate in our sexual relationships.
ANXIETY, FRUSTRATION, HANGUPS are thus born.

The real problem?

Everything you know about sex is false.

Pornography, mass media, and culture have deeply influenced (in a negative way) the way in which we think sex SHOULD be.

We think we need to be a certain way, to need to do certain things and often to show that we are suited to our partner.

We want to do wrong things, we pursue them, copying fake models and we feel unable to do one of the most beautiful and natural things that could exist.

My mission is to bring back joy, courtesy, and harmony in one of the most important dimensions of human life.

Contact me, I await you!

MY PASSION

MY MISSION

I experienced deep traumas that for a long time prevented me from living intimacy well.
Until I was 24 years old, orgasm was an absolute taboo… but one day I decided to change things.

Working on my sexual energy, practicing Tantra and taking personal development courses, I experienced a rebirth.

At that time I had no idea that my story would become my life mission!

My mission is to help as may people as possible to experience a true REBIRTH in ECSTASY.

What does rebirth mean?

It means to live an intimate life full of satisfaction, pleasure, and orgasms, in which you feel well and in complete harmony with your own body and with others. It is joy, playfulness, and spontaneity.

To offer you all this in a natural way I made a journey of over 15 years.

EVA SÝKORA – TANTRA EXPERT & SEX COACH #1 IN SWITZERLAND. +10.000 HOURS OF EXPERIENCE

MY METHOD

4 ELEMENTS
Awakening to Sexual Ecstasy

I am convinced that only through our personal stories, that which we have experienced ourselves, are we able to understand and help other people who are experiencing the same problems.

Today I am a happy multi-orgasmic woman, especially able to help others achieve results in a few months that took me years of study, exercise, and practice.

Through my 4 Elements Awakening to Sexual Ecstasy method we can work together to harmonize the 4 levels on which your harmony and your equilibrium as a human being are based:

Why is it so important to work on all 4 levels?

Because if you only work on one single aspect (as often happens with other coaches, therapists, or doctors), a part which is not in balance can once again attack the healthy ones, bringing you back to the initial situation.

With me, the solution to the problems is PERMANENT.

Your rebirth starts now.

A complete course of therapy involves several meetings a couple of hours long in my studio in Lugano, Switzerland.

Availability is very limited, especially on weekends.

– The following is my current availability –

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If you are really interested in a journey of growth, contact me now to avoid having to be on the waiting list.

Attention

This is not an erotic massage service, but rather a challenging path to growth that will enable you to solve all your problems and acquire a deeper state of awareness.

Contact me only if you are mature and really interested.

Reserve a free consultation now
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MY METHOD

4 ELEMENTS
Awakening to Sexual Ecstasy

I am convinced that only through our personal stories, things that we have experienced on our skin, we are able to understand and help other people who experience the same issues. Today I am a happy multi-orgasmic woman and above all able to help others achieve in a few months the same results that cost me years of study, exercises and practice.

Through my 4 Elements Awakening to Sexual Ecstasy method we can work together to harmonize the 4 planes on which your harmony and balance as a human being is based:

Why is it so important to work on all 4 levels?

Because if you only work on a single aspect (as often happens with other coaches, therapists or doctors), a non-harmonized part can again negatively affect the healthy ones, bringing you back to the initial situation.

The solution of problems, with me, is DEFINITIVE.

Certified Tantric Istructor

The Mohenjo-Daro system

Mohenjo-daro is a complete system for a woman’s development in terms of health, beauty, rejuvenation, sexuality, intimacy, passion for life, and psychic and artistic abilities.

It is a unique path in both its manner and simplicity. Indeed, an increasing number of women have decided to try her techniques to reach complete well-being. More than 5,000 women in the Czech Republic have taken part since 2002 and it is gradually spreading across Europe.

Mohendjo-daro works on many levels: bodily, energetic, emotional, psychic, and intimate. Despite being a modern system, it is based on techniques that date back to practices handed down for thousands of years in India.

The Mohendjo-daro is the best blend of East and West; it uses the top techniques of both.

Birth Into Being Trainer

The Birth Into Being course is the method you need for addressing the root causes of your malaise.

The Birth Into Being method focuses on conscious creation of a new humanity, offering an effective tool to support adults in the path of changing their behavioral patterns rooted in the trauma of birth.

Inner Child Healing Therapist

Inner Child Healing is coaching dedicated to the inner child and the most intimate and profound parts that develop during our journey of growth.

The goal is to bring about total healing by identifying the origin of each issue, dissolving it easily and connecting with our deepest subconscious levels and our inner beings, to bring them together in the self-healing processes.

Karma Restart Therapist

With the Karma Restart, the blocked energies that complicate your life are removed.

These negative energies, which we often don’t recognize even on a conscious level, can come from this life but also from past, parallel, or future lives because time is perceived differently for the soul.

Curative Tantric Massage

Tantra massage is a unique and sophisticated ritual based on Tantric philosophy and principles, which is becoming more and more popular among men, women, and couples all over the world.

It’s an invitation to the world of physical sensuality, gentle care, and the thrilling discovery of ecstatic experiences.

It’s a way to step outside of the limits of everyday life and fully dedicate yourself to the present moment.

The Tantra massage takes the form of an intimate ritual between giving and receiving, combining elements of ancient Tantric-Taoist techniques and classic massage, with a personal attitude, sensitive attention and a deep knowledge of the work with the energy that will make the massage Tantra will not only be relaxing, but will also fill you with excitement, tenderness and a feeling of life force and inspiration.

The massage therapist is a sensitive guide who helps the recipient to develop and discover their sexuality.
Tantra massage rejuvenates, beautifies, and heals both the body and the soul.

Energetic Tantric Massage

The secret of bioenergetic massages for women, to restore their body’s life force.

The art of bioenergetic massage for women and men involves special procedures, pressure and touch, intentionally conducted on particular points, in order to unblock and stimulate the flow of vital energy in the body of the woman being treated.

It’s like getting rid of armor:
energy is released and then it can rise and expand.

Massaging the bioenergetic points of the body, especially those of the pelvic floor bones, awakens, unblocks, and increases kundalini and sexual energy, and therefore increases the ability to enjoy the body and life itself.

Mojenjo-Daro Intimate Massage

Vaginal mapping, Yoni massage, skeletal-muscle pump massage, secret inner orbit, details about completion of Mohenjo-Daro, 4th level initiation.

Candle, Fly & Chrysalis Massage

Chrysalis massage

The Chrysalis Massage is a holistic massage based on the metamorphic technique of two scholars: the naturopath Robert Saint John and the Canadian Gaston Saint Pierre. This technique consists of lightly touching points on the feet, hands, and head.
These areas in the body must be stimulated from an energetic point of view and the result is a reflex action that restores equilibrium and circulation by correcting imbalances.

This treatment is useful for:

  • Muscle tension, insomnia, depression
  • Improving circulating energy in the body
  • Relieving tension and stress by recharging the body and mind

Fly massage

Philosophy based on aesthetic well-being using the foot map. Carrying out reflexology means learning to observe a person in all their complexity, considering their physical, psychic, and emotional characteristics, noticing their reaction both on a material and spiritual level, observing their reaction to their mother and father, and understanding their relationship with the present and their external and internal world, breaking down established opinions by placing them in a position of listening and receptivity.

FLY massage can also be applied in the aesthetic/holistic field to work on certain imperfections or problems that move the patient away from a state of well-being, such as skin blemishes and cellulite, greatly contributing to an improvement in physical appearance.

Health begins with the feet and this massage can improve:

  • Overweight / obesity
  • Water retention
  • Cellulite
  • Stress
  • Acne and skin problems
  • Pregnancy
  • Menstrual pains
  • Varicose veins

Candle massage

The candle massage is a modern massage technique, which fulfills the desire for well-being and relaxation of the body through tenderness and warmth, thanks to a manual and natural approach.
Among the countries where these techniques first spread, we see Hawaii where the typical Lomi lomi massage practiced by Kahuna masters began to evolve, and China, where it is linked to aromatherapy and techniques using hot stones, practiced in modern districts of Shanghai.

The treatment is useful for:

  • Muscle tension, insomnia
  • Relieving tension and stress by recharging the body and mind
  • Bringing about well-being and relaxation

Bio-Energetic Massage

  • The secret of bioenergetic massages for women and men …
  • The secret of bioenergetic massages for women, to restore their body’s life force.The art of bioenergetic massage for women and men involves special procedures, pressure and touch, intentionally conducted on particular points, in order to unblock and stimulate the flow of vital energy in the body of the woman being treated.
  • It’s like getting rid of armor: energy is released and then it can rise and expand.
  • Massaging the bioenergetic points of the body, especially those of the pelvic floor bones, awakens, unblocks, and increases kundalini and sexual energy, and therefore increases the ability to enjoy the body and life itself.

De-Armouring Massage

  • De-armoring the tantric body, releasing emotional blockages; detoxification and awakening the pineal gland, the center of intuition; and awakening the creative life force energy through orgasmic meditation.
  • Tantric de-armoring of the body allows us to let go of the holding patterns that lower our vibrational frequency and hinder our full enjoyment of life. These support frameworks are made up of unresolved sexual stress, corresponding emotional imbalances, and the physical tensions they create. Many people unknowingly carry these energy blocks throughout their lives while they wonder why it’s so hard to release deep trauma from the past.

Balinese massage

Originally from the island of Bali, Balinese massage is a mixture of various techniques from all over the Asian continent. In addition to Indian, Indonesian, and Chinese massage, some techniques from traditional Ayurvedic medicine are also used.

It is a harmonious blend of the energy of a draining massage with techniques that can dissolve muscle tension and improve blood circulation, creating a moment of well-being and pure relaxation.

This treatment is useful for:

  • Muscle tension, joint pain, etc.
  • Improving blood circulation
  • Relieving tension and stress
  • Improving quality of sleep

Human Soul System Training

Human Soul Life Coaching is a path of growth through which you will put yourself at the center of everything, to understand the functioning of your energy, your mind, your body, and all of your emotions.

Human Soul Life Coaching sessions allow you to gain a clear, 360° view of all the elements that contribute to the healing of certain personal aspects, resolution of conflicts, and achievement of goals or energetic and spiritual expansion.

Soul Regression
System Training

The Soul Regression path allows you to explore the soul world, the Akashic records, and the karmic baggage that supports or creates disharmony, resistance, and problems in your life.

Being able to understand and/or dissolve elements of your life which are invisible but interact strongly with us and through us, can bring about profound improvements in all areas of your life.

The goal of this path is to: lighten your life, making it simple, easy, and smooth, to learn how to transform karmic information, and to let go of what it is time to let to of, in a conscious way.

Inner Child Healing Training

During coaching you will learn how…

  • The inner child and other deeper parts continually have an impact within your life, and how to initiate the self-healing process;
  • To bring yourself into a deep communicative state with your inner child and with the other more intimate parts of you;
  • To find out the first time the issue causing the problems arose in your life;
  • To transform your view of yourself, healing low self-esteem;
  • To elaborate on and transform issues and problems with parental and family figures;
  • To heal the inner child;
  • To heal and harmonize family history karma that affects your life journey.

The inner child is our origin, our starting point. It is a living part of us and, thanks to its continuous interaction, it creates our reality, even if w’re not aware of it.

Life Mission Alignment

Life Mission Alignment is an impactful and transformative path through which you can learn a lot about who you are today and how to become the best version of you possible.

It’s the path for you if you wonder…

WHO I AM?

WHAT DID I COME TO EXPERIENCE?

HOW CAN I ACCESS MY REAL POTENTIAL?

You’ll discover the power of ‘self’ and, doing so, your intuitive and perceptive abilities will increase exponentially.

Full Body Channeling

Body Channeling is a Customized Energy Treatment.

Energy treatment is a tool for rediscovering the balance between body, emotions, mind, and spirit in order to develop self-healing skills and achieve inner peace, personal growth, and mental and physical well-being.

The unique quality of the guided treatment lies in drawing from and, therefore, channeling the energy best suited to you based on the type of imbalance present.

Energetic Channeling

Energetic Channeling is the development, strengthening, and refinement of ritualistic channeling, to understand the various informational energy fields to which you can connect to access the information you need. The goal of the course is to become an expert in channeling in order to access precise, detailed, unique information, and not just general information. This is done o be able to gain deeper knowledge on topics such as:
  • Ritualistic channeling;
  • The various forms of ritualistic channeling;
  • Advanced channeling techniques;
  • The energy fields to connect to, to receive and/or transmit information;
  • Conscious energy perception;
  • Enlargement of the crown chakra;

Goddess Essence Tranining

By spending time alone with other women, you have a chance to go back home with your deepest resources in your possession.

You are able to see yourself mirrored in your sisters and, in this way, cultivate many aspects of yourself that may have been overlooked.

You open to a new and expanded sexual awareness. You learn how to achieve greater ecstasy, how to expand your innate wise inner Goddess, and how to allow the power of love to manifest more fully in your life.

Training Sex
to superconsciousness

TANTRA training for couples

“From sex to superconsciousness” is a term coined by Osho. This training offers an experiential and transformative path to in-depth knowledge on this essential subject.

Exploring, understanding, and opening the chakra system is the key for everyone to go deep into Tantra. It is a gateway to universal consciousness.

When the chakra system is awakened to its full potential, you experience ecstasy in everyday life, find flow in your creative expression, and gain the power to communicate freely and in harmony within relationships.

Tantric Body De-armouring

De-armoring the tantric body, releasing emotional blockages; detoxification and awakening the pineal gland, the center of intuition; and awakening the creative life force energy through orgasmic meditation.

Tantric de-armoring of the body allows us to let go of the holding patterns that lower our vibrational frequency and hinder our full enjoyment of life. These support frameworks are made up of unresolved sexual stress, corresponding emotional imbalances, and the physical tensions they create.

Many people unknowingly carry these energy blocks throughout their lives as they wonder why it is so difficult to release deep trauma from the past.

Tantric Full Body Energy Orgasm

To access your sexual energy as a fuel for life, you need to focus on the present, and your body and sexuality. Many of us are focused on the past, using past experiences as a way to relate to our current sexual experiences. When you focus on the present moment, it becomes possible to use your sexual energy and body as a spiritual platform to access higher levels of consciousness and create blissful states to heal your body.

Difficulty reaching an orgasm

Firstly, don’t worry, you’re no longer alone and we can solve your problem together. I have a lot of experience.

1. If you have never had an orgasm, the causes may be:
  • Shame and guilt spawning from childhood
  • Religion or social influences
  • Fear of losing control
  • Passive-aggressive behavior i.e. “I will never let this man see an orgasm”
2. If you can have an orgasm alone but not with your partner,the causes may be:
  • Low sexual self-esteem
  • Fear of losing control
  • Inability to receive pleasure
  • Controlling your orgasm for fear of falling in love
  • Subconscious belief that “not having an orgasm is safer”
  • Distrust of men

Problems conveying what you desire

Firstly, don’t worry, you’re no longer alone and we can solve your problem together. I have a lot of experience.

Among the reasons for having trouble communicating what you want, we see:

  • Low self-esteem
  • Fear of losing your partner if you express what you like
  • Lack of knowledge of the body
  • Not knowing what to say

Insecurity or low self-esteem

Firstly, don’t worry, you’re no longer alone and we can solve your problem together. I have a lot of experience.

Among the reasons for sexual insecurity or low self-esteem, we find:

  • Lack of sexual education and experience
  • Lack of knowledge of the body
  • Lack of love for oneself
  • Lack of self-awareness

Frequent urinary tract infections

Firstly, don’t worry, you’re no longer alone and we can solve your problem together. I have a lot of experience.

From experience, I find that the following are among the reasons for frequent cystitis following intercourse:

  • Anger towards the partner or problems in the relationship
  • Psychosomatic problems
  • Bacterial problems
  • Stress, unbalanced emotional state
  • Bad diet, dairy products, and too much sugar

Total or partial lack of desire

Firstly, don’t worry, you’re no longer alone and we can solve your problem together. I have a lot of experience.

Among the reasons for total or partial lack of desire, we find:

  • Emotional or psychic problems
  • Lack of connection with the heart and with love
  • Lack of knowledge about the body and lack of experience on how to be intimate
  • Health problems
  • Shame and guilt
  • Trauma from childhood
  • Low self-esteem
  • Negative experiences from the past
  • Boredom in the relationship with your partner
  • Passive communication to gain power in the relationship: “I’ll give it to you when I want to”

Total or partial lack of pleasure

Firstly, don’t worry, you’re no longer alone and we can solve your problem together. I have a lot of experience.

Among the reasons for total or partial lack of pleasure we find:

  • Shame, guilt, or trauma from the childhood
  • Lack of connection with the heart and with love
  • Lack of knowledge and experience of how to be intimate
  • Abuse experienced as a child
  • Shame from religious beliefs or social influences
  • Inability to receive pleasure
  • Inability to be present in the body
  • Fear of losing control

Muscular tension and
difficulty relaxing

Firstly, don’t worry, you’re no longer alone and we can solve your problem together. I have a lot of experience.

Vaginismus has an emotional cause and it can be due to:

  • Depression, anxiety, worries, stress
  • Shame, fear, and guilt
  • Emotional pain
  • Humiliation and anger towards the male sex and therefore using the passive communication of “you’re not getting inside me”
  • An immature feminine side failing to express limits and boundaries and letting itself be humiliated instead of demanding respect

Difficulty getting
excited/lubricating

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The reasons why a woman may have difficulty getting aroused or lubricated are emotional and mental:

  • Fear of losing control
  • Low sexual self-esteem, for example thinking “I’m not enough”
  • Fear of letting go
  • Inability to physically relax
  • Scarring of the sexual organ, for example after childbirth
  • Stress or anxiety of any kind
  • Fear of being abandoned by the person or fear of being rejected
  • Boredom, apathy, or relationship problems
  • Hormonal changes
  • A big shock of any kind

Pain or burning
during intercourse

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The reasons for a burning sensation are emotional, not physical, and may be due to:
  • Trauma from physical or verbal abuse
  • Feelings of guilt relating to one’s religion
  • Shame caused by incorrect education at home
  • Belief that “If I am sexual I’m dirty” or “Something is wrong with me”.
  • Shame about sex; statistics indicate that 50% of people feel embarrassed to simply say vagina
  • Passive communication of “I don’t want to have sex”

Feelings of anxiety or insecurity

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In my experience, among the reasons for feeling sexual anxiety or insecurity we find:

  • Emotional or psychic problems
  • Lack of connection with the heart and with love
  • Lack of knowledge and experience on how to be intimate
  • Abuse experienced as a child
  • Strong mother (the man has put his mother on a pedestal)
  • Trauma from childhood
  • Insecurity about penis size (small penis) or body (fat, thin, etc.)

Difficulties in reaching orgasm

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Among the reasons that cause a more or less important lack of desire, from experience, we can find:

  • Depression, anxieties, worries, stress
  • Burn Out
  • Shame
  • Long previous period with addiction to pornography and fast masturbation
  • Problems in the relationship
  • Physical injuries
  • Medicines
  • Unhealthy Life Style – too much red meat, too much coffee, alcohol, drugs

Difficulties achieving erections
or getting excited

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Among the reasons why a man can’t get an erection or can’t get aroused are:

  • Performance pressure during sex
  • Low sexual self-esteem, for example thinking “I’m not enough”
  • Using drugs (e.g. cocaine)
  • Drinking too much coffee
  • Injury or surgery of the sexual organ; any scar can cause profound changes
  • Stress or anxiety of any kind
  • Fear of being abandoned by the person or fear of being rejected
  • Boredom, apathy, or relationship problems
  • Hormonal changes
  • A big shock of any kind

Occasional premature ejaculation

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The problem is almost always has a psychological nature and can be solved by following a specific path. Some of the causes can be:

  • Traumatic relationship (current or past). You may not realize it, but you have not been able to overcome the trauma of a previous relationship
  • You’re afraid of letting go (for example because you’re afraid of being abandoned by this woman).
  • This woman’s energy affects you negatively.
  • The woman, without knowing it, has strong reactions to the male sex organ and manifests them unconsciously in the relationship.
  • You experience pressure of high expectations from the woman, for example she wants to have sex for a long time or do so intensely, she wants it to be perfect, or she has more desire for you or often pushes you to have sex.

Recurring premature ejaculation​

Firstly, don’t worry, you’re no longer alone and we can solve your problem together. I have a lot of experience.

The problem is almost always has a psychological nature and can be solved by following a specific path. Some of the causes can be:

  • Your body has become accustomed to orgasming quickly, for example through masturbation with porn
  • You may be experiencing ongoing psychic and physical exhaustion, for example caused by pressure at work or a period of stress in your relationship
  • You are in a new relationship that you consider important and you are experiencing performance anxiety
  • You simply drink too much coffee or stimulating substances (such as tea or energy drinks)
  • You have suffered psychological abuse by women in the past (ex-girlfriends, friends, colleagues, teachers, etc.)
  • Problems with your mother: you’ve experienced physical or emotional abuse as a child. Maybe that’s over now but it continues to affect you.
  • You’re unsure of your ability in bed or about parts of your body (you feel too fat or too thin) or you’re insecure about your penis size.